GEMs Podcast

  • How much do you want to know about your baby even before he or she is born? And are you prepared for the decisions knowledge can bring?

    Good Enough Moms, July 26, 2010: Untangling the Mystery in My DNA: One Mother’s Poignant Story

    Innovations in genetic and medical technologies enable prospective parents to know more than ever before about the potential life prospects of their future sons and daughters. But that knowledge sometimes brings with it difficult choices, from how much you choose to know to how you will act on that knowledge if you have it. Author Bonnie Rough joins Marti & Erin from Amsterdam to talk about her experience as a known carrier of a rare genetic disorder, a story with something to say to us all.


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  • What are your options for pregnancy care and birth planning? What should guide you in those important decisions?

    Good Enough Moms, July 19, 2010: Pregnancy Care & Birthing Options: A Conversation with Park Nicollet’s Director of Nurse Midwives

    When you decide to have a baby you begin a journey with countless decisions along the way. These days options abound in terms of pregnancy care and birth planning, and being well-informed is key to making good decisions for you and your baby. Diane Feller, Director of Nurse Midwives at Park Nicollet Clinics, joins Marti and Erin to help you consider your options.


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  • Do you often catch yourself with clenched jaws, tight fists or butterflies in your stomach? Learn how you and your child can use those signals from your body to help you make healthy choices and reduce stress.

    Good Enough Moms, July 12, 2010: What’s Your Body Telling You? A Conversation with Author Steve Sisgold

    Steve Sisgold, author of  "What’s Your Body Telling You?," joins Marti & Erin for a provocative discussion about some of the messages we internalize in childhood that can distort our emotions and undermine our body’s wisdom. Both you and your children will benefit from these practical lessons for living a healthier life.

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  • Can you be your child’s “friend” and still be an effective parent? Hear one expert’s thoughtful perspective on that and more!

    Good Enough Moms, July 5, 2010: Parenting Is a Contact Sport: A Conversation with Joanne Stern, Therapist and Author

    Marti & Erin talk today with Joanne Stern, author of "Parenting Is a Contact Sport: 8 Ways to Stay Connected with Your Kids for Life." You’ll gain new insight into the importance of close parent-child relationships, the role of open communication in sustaining those relationships, and how close, warm relationships make discipline easier and more effective in the short-run and long-run.


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  • How do you know if your child's development is on track? And if you suspect a problem, where can you turn for help?

    Good Enough Moms, June 28, 2010: Early Childhood Screening: It's Important for Your Child and Mine

    Early childhood experts from the Minnesota Department of Education join Marti & Erin to tell you everything you need to know about early childhood screening, what it tells you about your child’s development and what happens if screening shows that your child’s development might not be on track. Marti & Erin share their own stories about screening and why it turned out to be so important in their experience.

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  • What are the most important things that shape your child’s lifelong health? Researchers across the country are setting out to find out, and you will want to know.

    Good Enough Moms, June 21, 2010: Lifelong Health Begins Before Conception: A Conversation with Public Health Researcher Dr. Wendy Hellerstedt

    Marti & Erin talk with one of the lead researchers on a groundbreaking new study of children’s health that will follow 100,000 individuals from conception to adulthood (including many from Minnesota’s Ramsey County). You’ll want to get in on the ground floor as this important story unfolds.

     

       


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  • In the mass of advice available to parents, how do you boil it down to a few key concepts you can remember and apply at every stage?

    Good Enough Moms, June 14, 2010: Advantage Mom: Practical Lessons in Effective Parenting

    As a child development expert, author and mother of 15-year-old twin sons, Maureen O’Brien (“Dr. Mo” to many) knows how overwhelming it can be to sort through all the expert advice that bombards today’s parents. So she keeps it short and sweet when she joins Marti and Erin from Boston to offer her favorite gems of wisdom.  


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  • What are your biggest fears as a parent in today’s world? And are you worrying about the things worth worrying about?

    Good Enough Moms, June 6, 2010: It Comes with the Territory: Mothers’ Worries, Right or Wrong

     Fear leads many parents today to hover over their children, keeping them close at hand  and/or over-programmed in structured, adult-directed activities. But are the fears behind “helicopter parenting” grounded in reality? And are other potentially greater risks overlooked in the process? From the Minneapolis/St. Paul Star Tribune, Cribsheet bloggers Kay and May join Marti and Erin for a provocative discussion of this hot topic.  


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  • What are the emotional consequences when families go through divorce? And what will help parents and children stay strong and healthy through such a difficult life change?

    Good Enough Moms, May 31, 2010: Minimizing the Pain of Divorce for Parents and Children

    Divorce is a painful process for everyone involved, but there are effective ways to manage the pain and ensure better outcomes for all members of the family.  Therapist Jamie Kautz joins Marti and Erin from Tacoma, Washington, to offer practical tips and insights from her practice with divorcing families.   


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  • In the complex world of adoption, what is the range of experiences for children, adoptive parents and birth parents?

    Good Enough Moms, March 24, 2010: Stories of Loss and Discovery: Multiple Perspectives on Adoption

    Marti and Erin welcome authors Kate St. Vincent Vogl and Linda Back McKay, who bring poignant stories of their own experiences with all roles in the adoption triad – adopted child, birth mother placing her child for adoption, and adoptive mother. Their stories will touch you deeply.  


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  • With all the different approaches to discipline parents can take, what is the bottom line when it comes to setting limits and enforcing them?

    Good Enough Moms, May 17, 2010: Love, Limits, Reasons and Consequences: Keys to Raising a Respectful, Responsible Child

    How many times have you complained about kids today being spoiled or having a sense of entitlement? And, whether your children are tots or teens, how many times have you found yourself caving into your own child's demands because you were just too tired to hold the line? Well, you're not alone! It takes strength, persistence, and an eye toward the future to provide the kind of consistent guidance children need. And it helps to understand what research has shown about the longterm benefits of what is called "authoritative" parenting. Tune into Marti and Erin's free-flowing discussion (and candid confessions) about the challenges of becoming "authoritative" parents and the importance of uniting with other parents committed to that same, effective approach.  

       


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  • How can you help your child get the most out of participating in sports? And what are the pitfalls to avoid?

    Good Enough Moms, May 10, 2010: Opportunities and Hazards: Helping Your Child Navigate the Complicated World of Sports

     

    Participating in sports can yield rich benefits for a child's learning and development, promoting fitness, persistence, social skills, and confidence. But parents, coaches and other caring adults play a crucial role in making sure a child's athletic experience is helpful and healthy, both physically and emotionally. Child development professor and longtime advisor to student-athletes, Dr. Richard Weinberg, joins Marti and Erin this week for a lively chat about the dos and don'ts of nurturing your child's athletic talents and interests. Don't miss this timely conversation! 

       


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  • What does it take to help Mom, Dad and a newborn baby get off to a good start? And how can others help pave the way?

    Good Enough Moms, May 3, 2010: The Good, the Bad and the Sleepless: Helping Families Embrace the Joys and Challenges of a New Baby  

    The arrival of a new baby, through birth or adoption, is usually one of the most exciting and joyful times in a parent's life. But it also is one of the most challenging and exhausting. Too often moms and dads may feel they should be able to handle everything just fine on their own; after all, people have been doing this for centuries, right? But families need and deserve all the help, support and encouragement they can get during this important time of family development. This week's guest, Sara Samuels, Postpartum Care Manager at Promise Care, Inc., draws on both professional and personal experience to offer practical tips and insights in a heartfelt conversation with the Good Enough Moms.


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  • Why is play one of the most important things in your child's daily life?

    Good Enough Moms, April 26: Unleashing the Scientist in Your Child: The Importance of Play in Children's Learning

    Although worksheets and flashcards have crept into the lives of younger and younger children, those activities are no match for creative play when it comes to unleashing your child's drive to learn. This week Dr. Ann Boekhoff and Judy Schumacher from the Minnesota Children's Museum join Marti and Erin to share this important and liberating message for all you good enough moms and dads and anyone else who cares for and about children.


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  • If we don't teach our children about love and sex, who will?

    Good Enough Moms, April 19, 2010: Love, Romance and Sex: Preparing Our Children Now for Healthy, Respectful Relationships in the Future

    From early childhood, our children are bombarded with images of romance and sex, but often those images are far from what we parents wish for our children. Yet we often are so uncomfortable discussing these topics with our children that we leave the teaching to pop culture and peers. Drawing on their professional and personal experiences, Marti and Erin talk about the most important things parents and other caregivers can do to help children develop healthy attitudes, values and behaviors about love, romance and sex. Whatever the age of your child, it's not a moment to soon to begin!

    To what extent did your parents or other caregivers talk to you about love, romance and sex? What images -- in real life or in the media -- shaped your ideas about romantic relationships and sex? To what extent do you want to handle these topics and issues the same or differently than your parents did? And how is that going for you?  Go to the FORUM and participate in a conversation about this podcast.


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  • Are you ready to reclaim your happy home from the clutter that has taken over?

    Good Enough Moms, April 12, 2010: Clearing the Clutter, Easing Your Mind

    Just in time for spring cleaning, author Barbara Tako joins Marti and Erin to provide inspiration and simple tips for clearing clutter, calming your household, and reducing stress in your daily life. You can start with just 10 minutes today and be on your way!

       


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  • How does a family find the strength to move on after the loss of a child? And how can others help?

    Good Enough Moms, April 5, 2010: Helping Families Through Loss: A Conversation with the Founders of Faith's Lodge

    Marti & Erin talk with Mark & Susan Lacek about their journey following the death of their first child, Faith, and how that experience led them to create a beautiful retreat where other families are finding hope and healing in the face of the death or serious illness of a child. Be sure to listen to the end of the podcast to hear "One More Day," Mark's musical tribute to Faith.

    For a link to Hope Rocks, a benefit concert for Faith's Lodge featuring Everclear on September 25, 2010, click here.


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  • What does it take to prevent child abuse and why is it your business and mine?

    Good Enough Moms, March 29, 2010: Preventing Child Abuse: Considering Risks and Opportunities

    April is Child Abuse Prevention Month, but child abuse is an issue we all should care about every month of the year. Connie Skillingstad, Executive Director of Prevent Child Abuse - Minnesota, joins Marti and Erin for a discussion of this important topic and brings some information that may surprise you about the threats children face and what we can do about it, individually and collectively.


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  • How prepared is your child for both fun and safety in the water?

    Good Enough Moms, March 22, 2010: Helping Your Child Be Safe and Happy in the Water: A Conversation with Swimming Expert Susan Foss

    Marti and Erin talk with Susan Foss who, with her husband Jon, is nationally recognized as an innovator in swimming instruction. You will learn what to expect at different stages of development and how to help your child, at any age, strike the right balance between a love of water and a healthy respect for the dangers it can pose. This is information every parent needs


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  • Are you getting the most out of family mealtime, nutritionally and emotionally?

    Good Enough Moms, March 15, 2010: Building a Healthy Feeding Relationship with Your Child: A Conversation with Dr. Katja Rowell

    Whether you're the parent of a picky preschooler who flees at the sight of green or a short-order cook trying to please a hungry teen, Dr. Katja Rowell of Family Feeding Dynamics can help you take the stress out of mealtime and learn how to feed body and soul for yourself and your family.


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  • From crib to college, how can you avoid becoming your child's ATM?

    Good Enough Moms, March 7, 2010:  Promoting Financial Sanity for Your Children and Yourself:  A Conversation with Author Nathan Dungan

    From the first moment your child says, "I want ...," you can begin to teach the values and skills that will shape your child's lifelong approach to money.  Nathan Dungan, founder and president of Share, Save, Spend, offers sound advice you won't want to miss, whatever the ages of your children.


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  • Is your child learning to love to read - and read to succeed?

    Good Enough Moms, March 1, 2010: Promoting the Love of Reading in Your Daughters and Sons: Insights from the Field

    As people around the world prepare to celebrate World Read Aloud Day on March 3, Pam Allyn, founder of LitWorld and author of What to Read When, and Meredith Sinclair, star mommy blogger of Hoo-dee-hoo.com, join Marti and Erin to share tips on how to ignite the joy of reading in your daughters and your sons. You also will learn fun and creative ways you and your children can join with others near and far to celebrate World Read Aloud Day. 


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  • Is toxic stress harming your child's brain?

    Good Enough Moms, February 22, 2010:  Stress and Young Children: When Is Stress Harmful and What Can You Do About It?

    New research sheds light on how children's brains react to stress, what types of stress cause lasting harm, and what parents and other caring adults can do to protect children from toxic stress.  Dr. Megan Gunnar, world-renowned researcher from the University of Minnesota's Institute on Child Development, joins Marti and Erin for a discussion you will not want to miss!


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  • How often do your kids play outside? And why does it matter?

    Good Enough Moms, February 15, 2010:  Healing the Broken Bond Between Children and Nature:  A Conversation with Author Richard Louv

    Marti and Erin chat with Richard Louv, author of Last Child in the Woods: Saving Our Children from Nature Deficit Disorder and founding chair of the Children & Nature Network, about the disturbing drop in outdoor time among children today compared with previous generations.  With an eye toward turning that trend around, Richard and the GEMs make a strong case for why and how we can reconnect children and nature, with benefits for kids, families, communities and the planet!


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  • How can "mom time" for you make life better for your kids?

    Good Enough Moms, February 8, 2010: Give Yourself a Valentine, Mom - for Your Sake and Your Kids'

    When you become a mother, the time you devote to self-care is likely to drop dramatically. And yet caring for yourself is essential to caring for others. Drawing on both research and personal experience, Marti & Erin offer ways to stay healthy and balanced so you can help your kids do the same.

     


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  • Are you raising a child who will make the world a better place?

    Good Enough Moms, February 1, 2010:  The 3 Cs: Keys to Raising Happy, Caring, Responsible Kids (Part 2: Competence and Contribution)

    At each stage of development a child needs to experience what it means to be effective, to influence what happens, to handle the challenges of day to day life, and to discover what it means to do something well. Even at very young ages, children need to be valued as full participants in -- and contributors to -- the communities in which they live and grow. Marti and Erin are joined today by Maria O'Phelan and her son Conor, founder of Project Unum, vibrant examples of how to help children develop a sense of contribution and discover that they are competent to make a difference in the world. 

    To learn more about Project Unum, click here.


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  • What's the real truth about parent-child attachment?

    GEMs, January 25, 2010:  The 3 Cs: Keys to Raising Happy, Caring, Responsible Kids (Part 1: Connection)

    Research shows that the number one protective factor in a child's life is enduring connections to caring, supportive adults. These essential connections begin in the earliest days of a child's life, ideally in the context of the family where strong, secure attachments to parents and other sensitive, responsive caregivers lay the foundation for later development. Because attachment is Dr. Marti's area of specialization, Erin actually solicits her mom's guidance on this important topic. (And Marti promises to try to keep unsolicited advice to a minimum!)  


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  • What does it take to be a good enough dad?

    GEMs, January 18, 2010: Good Enough Dads

    Marti and Erin are joined by Jeff Kamin, work-at-home dad and host of the popular Books & Bars program in Minneapolis, and Dr. Richard Rende, developmental psychologist and Associate Professor of Psychiatry and Human Behavior at Brown University Medical School. They explore questions about the roles of moms and dads, how they are the same or different, and the expectations society holds for moms vs. dads.


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  • Are YOU a good enough mom?

    GEMs, January 11, 2010:  Good Enough Moms

    Do you have trouble sorting through all the high-pressure messages about what you need to do to give your kids the best possible life? Well, you're not alone! In this first podcast, meet the show's hosts, Marti & Erin Erickson, and hear their thoughts (and some good research) about what it really means to be a good enough mom.


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